Take time to think!  Literally!  So many of us say, “I am just not happy. . .”  or “I would love to find a better job. . .”, but it all ends there.  Why?  It is not because you don’t really care, but it is because you don’t manage your time well.

I hear these statements on a hurried lunch break, or a quick phone conversation before the next meeting, or passing someone in the grocery store.  Their time is already taken up with other things.  The tyranny of the urgent has won out any real time to think about your work status.

The simple solution is YOU NEED TO PLAN TIME TO THINK ABOUT YOUR CAREER ASPIRATIONS!  

Granted, we all need to eat and work, so I am not encouraging you to quit your job and fast until the dream job lands in your lap.  But what about the other time?  The time spent on facebook, watching mindless TV, reading that fictional book. . .again?

I BELIEVE EVERY PERSON CAN FIND 5-10 HOURS A WEEK THAT THEY ARE NOT BUSY DOING NECCESSARY THINGS!

What if you took that time to really think and answer these questions?

1)  What would be my dream job if I could do anything?

2)  Who would I need to talk to to find out more about that job?

3)  What book/magazine/blog/ or articles can I read that will make me more knowledgable about that profession?  

4)  What is 1 step I can take this week that will get me closer to landing that dream job?  

These are tough questions to answer if you are shopping at the grocery store with your grouchy toddler.  That is why you need to TAKE TIME TO THINK about it later.

So, when can you put some focused time on pursuing work that you love this week?

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I peed in my pants. . .Part 2

by trent on August 5, 2011

Recently I told you about my dream of being a cowboy in the Wild West one day (see July 21st post).  I would give up that dream eventually. . .it doesn’t matter that is was in college.  I blame it on the “Wild West” becoming too domesticated.

Really, this is a journey of recovering our dreams.  What did you want to be when you were a little chap?  What do you want to be now?

I realized a dream in middle school that has been a dream I have embraced.  In my inaugural speech in the 7th grade, running for President of Student Council, I  realized that I wanted to be a speaker.  Don’t get me wrong, I am always nervous before I speak, but it is an adrenaline rush.  Just like that day.

I remember sitting on the bleachers wearing a shirt, tie, and shorts (hey, don’t knock it, other kids followed on picture day- I was a TREND SETTER).  The gym was tiny so every sound vibrated off the walls.  As the scrawny sixth graders were finishing up, I started to feel my heart beat. . .harder and harder.  I almost decided to bale out and not do it, then they called my name.  I walked up to the podium and said,

“I had a real tough time thinking about what I would say, and then it hit me.”  I proceeded to roll down some toilet paper with apparent words on them.  My fellow students roared with laughter and my spirit roared victory!  I had found something I love.  I love to speak messages of value and inspiration and am dedicated to spending the rest of my life improving that skill.

So, what is something you learned you loved from an early childhood experience? (Comment below)

 

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You are a Failure if. . .

July 30, 2011

One thing I have learned in my research of great people who have obtained a sense of happiness, purpose, and accomplishment is that they do not run from failure, but embrace it as a close friend. By keeping failure close to your heart and mind, you can learn from the mistakes you made. Failing is [...]

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I wanted to be a cowboy. . .but I peed in my pants!

July 21, 2011

I was a dreamer when I was little.  Weren’t we all?  What happens from childhood to adulthood that strips us of dreaming?  More on that later. . . I always wanted to be a cowboy.  In fact, I had a fake plastic horse with springs that I would ride in my house all the time [...]

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Give, Gage, and then Get what you want!

July 1, 2011

Have you ever been sold something in the flash of a moment, and then you look back and said, “when did I say yes?” My wife and I were shopping the other day, and we were getting hungry.  We were talking about where to eat on the way home as we were stopped by a [...]

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Imitating Mr. Rogers “Who are you? Why are you here?”

June 11, 2011

So. . .What makes you significant? Why are you here? What are you passionate about? Did you like this? Share it:Tweet

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Watching TV can Steal Your Dreams!

June 6, 2011

A recent poll showed that Americans watch an average of 34.5 hours of TV a week.   That is almost equal to the hours you spend in a full-time job.  I have spoken with lots of people who say they can’t pursue interests they have because “I just don’t have time.”  That may be true [...]

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Communicating vs. Connecting

May 5, 2011

Facebook, twitter, linkedin, and youtube.  I use them all, and they are great resources for communicating.  Because of these forums of social media, everyone is able to communicate their story, their product, and their opinions.  Someone could spend their whole day reading updates on people’s pages or feeds.  Then, they can respond and say what [...]

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Purposeful Planning vs. Wishful Thinking

March 20, 2011

I met with a friend today who has been reading my book, and he confessed to me that he had not really been purposeful in any area of his life. He felt as if he has mainly coasted through life and he is not happy with his present status. Actually, he makes more money then [...]

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Does your noodle stick?

March 3, 2011

I was making noodles for my wife and I earlier tonight and (as my stomach growled) I thought to myself, “How long do these noodles have to boil before they are good?”  Then I remembered the age old test of simply throwing it against the wall.  If it sticks, then the noodles are ready.  Well, [...]

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